When it comes to being the ultimate, optimal person that you can be, you have to first realize that it is totally within your grasp. You have to know that it is within your ability and power to be that person. You have to believe in yourself.
Concentrate on the solutions, not the Problems
A lot of us spend most of our time thinking about and agonizing over the things we think we can’t do. We ponder on our “failures”. Remember, that whatever it is you spend most of your time thinking about, that is precisely what you are attracting into your life - more of just that. So focus on the negative and you will attract more negative.
In other words, the more you torture yourself over your failures or mistakes, the more you invite and recreate those in your daily life.
Remember that you are not your mistakes, your ‘failures’ are there to steer you towards success. Mistakes are made so that they can be learned from. Use them to guide you as to what not to do next time, and start concentrating on what is the right course of action to steer away from that mistake.
So now by concentrating on the solutions, you are thinking about the positive, you are thinking about what you want, and you are attracting what you want. You are literally pulling the positive into your life, into your reality.
Be a failure breaker - not maker…
If being a magnetic, charismatic, attractive and energetic person is what you want – start thinking about that. Start PICTURING yourself in that way, and you have taken the most important step. That is the first thing you have to do to get Pizzazz.
The Pizzazz Factor will take you the rest of the way. Once you have Pizzazz there is no stopping you, no limit to the person you can be and the things you can achieve!
Believe in yourself – You have the Power!
Kind Regards
Vanessa Bader
Don't take it so personally
Written by veedance
Sunday, 17 May 2009
It is true that some people are more sensitive than others. Some of us handle rejection really well, and some of us have very thick skins and manage to just shake it off.
Nobody likes rejection, and believe me, I know all about that. Being a dancer and going through audition after audition, I am very familiar with the pain of rejection. Those moments when you look at yourself and you go: "what did I do wrong... what is wrong with me, or why didn't they like me?"
When you go for a job interview, an audition or meet someone special and you get rejected, you don't get the call, or a second date - the first thing you do is look at yourself and look for the flaws in you. You beat yourself up because you are not "good enough".
This is when you need to remember that the problem is not necessarily with you. We all tend to take rejection very personally. But maybe it just isn't the right time, the right job or the right person for you. Nine out of ten times that becomes clear a little further down the road when we have a chance to look back and be objective.
This old saying might be a cliché but I believe it is true: When one door closes another one opens. It is very important that you remind yourself of this when you are feeling down in the dumps, when it seems like a mountain is resting on your shoulders and there is no way out.
It is important to be brave, get up and try again... keep moving forward. When you learn to not take rejection so seriously and so personally, you will see how much easier life gets.
Then it is easier to smile, to radiate and to have Pizzazz. Part of having the Pizzazz Factor? is to be able to look at the bigger picture and be a happier, more content person. When you find that peace within yourself, that knowing that rejection is temporary, everything becomes a little easier.
When you fall down, get up, dust off, and move forward! Try to have fun and remember that there is always something or someone else out there that is the perfect match for you, and if you keep moving forward, you will soon find it!
