When it comes to having the Pizzazz Factor, I know I am always putting a lot of emphasis on the importance of proper posture and body language. But the truth is, having impeccable posture and knowing all the body language ins and outs, still doesn't qualify as having Pizzazz.
Today I would like to put more emphasis on the intentions and thought processes that goes into being a person who has that special something. Yes, the posture is step one - but great posture without the right attitude does not equal the Pizzazz Factor
You have to set the intention to impress, the intension to be remembered and adored. It is that special sparkle in your eye and the tweak of the corners of your mouth that is going to put the finishing touches on your memorable, magnetic first impressions.
When you walk in the door you have to have an air about you, that lift of the chin and the twinkle in your eye. I always say - "Empty thoughts create Empty motions"
In other words, I can spend all day showing you how to correct your posture and go on and on about how to use your body language, how to maintain eye contact and how to show interest.
I can tell you to take time to remember someone's name and to ask them questions about themselves. I can show you how to walk, sit and stand to look impressive and poised.
But now the most important part - and none of that amounts to much without this one special ingredient - and the ingredient is you - your intentions, your personality; your individuality!
The Pizzazz Factor is all about YOU and the individual that you are. It is about knowing that you are special and about radiating your own, personal character and qualities. About being who you are one hundred and fifty percent so that when you are in a room, at any event or any meeting people can't help but notice YOU!
Not only your posture, your poise and your presence - but the person that is YOU!
So I want to say that the most important secret to having the Pizzazz Factor is your Attitude, your Personality - the part of you that makes you unusual and distinctive. When you know how to be that person with confidence, one hundred percent - that is when you have the Ultimate Pizzazz Factor!
With the right guidance and a little bit of practice, you can be that self-confident, magnetic, memorable and impressive person. The person with total and undeniable Pizzazz!
Make it happen - You have the Power!
Written by veedance
Friday, 23 January 2009
A brand new year has begun and with it, opportunity for change.
We tend to wait for other people to make the changes for us, we tend to think we do not have any choices in creating the changes that present themselves before us, when as a matter of fact you are the one that can make the positive changes in your life happen.
Change is a part of every day life but the word tends to scare a lot of us. Change can seem very scary at times - very difficult, but the truth is that change is inevitable and with change comes the chance to grow and learn.
Change is good...
Change happens for all of us on a daily basis, some changes are small and go unnoticed but there are other changes that have profound impact on our lives.
Some changes are inevitable and the outcome seems out of your control, but you have a choice as to how you are going to embrace those changes.
Change is inevitable like the Seasons
Change does not have to be involuntary. You can also choose to make certain changes in your life - changes that you know will improve your quality of life.
With the Pizzazz Factor I share with you the secrets that will help you vastly improve your self-confidence and your self-image.
The great thing is that these changes are so easy to implement and the benefits are endless.
In addition to feeling more confident and self- assured you will also look and feel more energetic, thinner, healthier and happy!
Now is the time to start making those affirmative and positive changes in your life that will help you improve, learn and grow. You can have Pizzazz - that "It-Factor" that makes you stand out in the crowd, make great first impressions and makes you feel like a million dollars!
Don't resist change - embrace it! Change is good! You have the Power!
Kind regards
Vanessa Bader
P.S. Implement those changes in your life that are for the better... Strive to improve your overall quality of life with The Pizzazz Factor. And these changes are not scary or difficult... they are easy to implement principals that will help you make positive changes in your life!
Start with Happiness
Written by veedance
Tuesday, 13 January 2009
What is true happiness? To have the Pizzazz Factor completely - inside out, it is helpful to feel truly happy. The feeling of being truly content with who you are as a person, gives you sense of power and self-confidence.
Only when you have accepted yourself and you honestly love yourself, can you exhibit the poise and the self-confidence that gives you that truly magnetic presence, the Pizzazz Factor - the ability to be attracting, charming and memorably radiant.
True Happiness
But how do you get to the point that you can feel honestly, without affectation or pretense that you accept yourself, that you can just be. Be who you are to the fullest extent.
The extent to which you feel confident and self-assured might vary from day to day and from task to task. You might feel more sure of yourself in some situations than others. But I would venture to say that one of the most important things when it comes to self-acceptance is to be able to forgive yourself.
We quite often find it easier to forgive others than we do to forgive ourselves. Every time you forgive yourself for a behavior, you are able to have more compassion towards yourself and others.
When you have more compassion for your self and your mistakes, you grow in self-love. There can't be happiness without love, and no love without compassion and no compassion without forgiveness - so by starting with forgiveness, you end up at love and happiness.
So start right now and find a way to start to forgive yourself for your mistakes and behaviors, and you have taken the first step towards true happiness, true self-acceptance and true Pizzazz.
