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How to have the Ultimate Attitude |
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Friday, 30 January 2009 |
When it comes to having the Pizzazz Factor, I know I am always putting a lot of emphasis on the importance of proper posture and body language. But the truth is, having impeccable posture and knowing all the body language ins and outs, still doesn't qualify as having Pizzazz.
Today I would like to put more emphasis on the intentions and thought processes that goes into being a person who has that special something. Yes, the posture is step one - but great posture without the right attitude does not equal the Pizzazz Factor
You have to set the intention to impress, the intension to be remembered and adored. It is that special sparkle in your eye and the tweak of the corners of your mouth that is going to put the finishing touches on your memorable, magnetic first impressions.
When you walk in the door you have to have an air about you, that lift of the chin and the twinkle in your eye. I always say - "Empty thoughts create Empty motions"
In other words, I can spend all day showing you how to correct your posture and go on and on about how to use your body language, how to maintain eye contact and how to show interest.
I can tell you to take time to remember someone's name and to ask them questions about themselves. I can show you how to walk, sit and stand to look impressive and poised.
But now the most important part - and none of that amounts to much without this one special ingredient - and the ingredient is you - your intentions, your personality; your individuality!
The Pizzazz Factor is all about YOU and the individual that you are. It is about knowing that you are special and about radiating your own, personal character and qualities. About being who you are one hundred and fifty percent so that when you are in a room, at any event or any meeting people can't help but notice YOU!
Not only your posture, your poise and your presence - but the person that is YOU!
So I want to say that the most important secret to having the Pizzazz Factor is your Attitude, your Personality - the part of you that makes you unusual and distinctive. When you know how to be that person with confidence, one hundred percent - that is when you have the Ultimate Pizzazz Factor!
With the right guidance and a little bit of practice, you can be that self-confident, magnetic, memorable and impressive person. The person with total and undeniable Pizzazz!
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